PURSUING OR ALLOWING?

downloadIn her book Dying To Be Me Anita Moorjani (of the famous NDE and healing of cancer) talks a lot about pursuing vs. allowing. She says that after her NDE experience, she no longer felt that she had to pursue goals, that it was more a question of allowing things to come to her…to happen naturally.

There’s a lot of wisdom in that thought. In my own life, I’ve found that even when we get the thing we think we want, often there’s no lasting satisfaction. I see people on Facebook (and I do this myself as well) busily promoting themselves, whether it’s their art, their music, their book…whatever, usually with little results. But some people do seem to make it “work”—I’ve seen several friends hold successful Kickstarter campaigns, meaning that they got the money they were asking for.

It seems that it’s a question of how we think and where were are in life that makes us either pursue or allow. I can’t sit in judgment and say one is better than the other. I believe that we do what is right for us at any given moment. It may not be right for someone else, and it may not even be right for us after some time has passed. From my own experience I’ve found that the “pushing, pulling, wishing, and wanting” approach has eventually led to frustration and limitation for me.

Last night I watched a video on YouTube by jazz pianist/educator Dave Frank entitled “How Artists and Content Creators Can Survive in the era of Free Content,” where he discussed the current trend of people downloading music for free on the internet. In his view, this new trend is more about people sharing than it is about money, so, as he said in the video, “…there is an expectation that you’ll share some stuff for free, to be part of the global conversation that’s going on.” Then he said that each one, individually, then decides how to get some payback…but…he himself simply decided to give it all away, to share it as much as possible. He said that the spiritual principle he based his choice on is: “If you serve, you will be served,” and that this principle works just like mathematics. “So what that means,” he said, “is that you put your heart and soul out there to people and try to share something that will be of benefit to them, and then what you need will come back to you.” And he wasn’t just “whistlin’ Dixie,” as they say, because he eventually began to receive compensation for his offerings.

I like his approach. To me there’s something very freeing about it. It follows Anita Moorjani’s prescription of allowing instead of pursuing, and I honestly do believe that there is a law as accurate as mathematics that governs these things.

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8 responses to “PURSUING OR ALLOWING?

  1. What blesses one, blesses all! Thanks Amy.

  2. Surely it is more blessed to give than to receive. When I forget that or even ignore it, I usually end up experiencing the frustration you mentioned. My expectation of receiving shattered, hope deferred makes the heart sick.
    But when I am able to truly get in that space where giving is the true motive (fairly rare :>) and the thought of receiving isn’t even a blip on the radar (more rare LOL) things go a lot better. No need to pursue in this scenario because the objective was already met. To give.
    The dilemma for me however is staying out of the first paragraph and spending more time in the second paragraph. Come to think of it that’s humanly impossible for me. It can only be done by doing as Paul wrote in Phillipians 2:5 to Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus. And that can only be imparted by God. But then it gets pretty simple. All I have to is ask. I have not because I ask not. Thanks Amy! I think you just solved my dilemma! :>)

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